Reflections: Triumphs, Fears, and Proud Moments of 2023
If you’re like me, you love an end-of-the-year reflection. But it’s a whole YEAR, right? It’s hard to know where to begin.
I recommend the following three prompts: Something I overcome, something that still scares me, and something I’m proud of.
Here are mine…Enjoy!
Something I overcame professionally:
This year, I conquered a long-held belief: the notion that relentless work is the sole path to success and financial stability, a mindset deeply rooted in the hardworking values instilled by my immigrant parents.
For years, I firmly believed that constant effort was the only way to achieve financial stability. However, at the start of this year, I teetered on the brink of burnout. My business, while my passion, had engulfed every aspect of my life. While I had passion and drive, there was a severe lack of balance. I existed in a perpetual cycle of toil, leaving no room for joy or leisure—a contradiction to my pursuit of freedom, fulfillment, joy, and independence.
A pivotal moment arrived during my transformative trip to Europe. Initially planned as a brief hiatus, it extended into a 7-month excursion abroad. During the initial three weeks spent with a close friend, Susan, work took a backseat as relaxation and adventure became my priority.
Subsequently, my approach to work underwent a profound shift. I gave up the incessant hustle, embracing exploration and immersion in the beautiful destinations I visited. Nature became my solace; indulging in good reads, savoring delicious cuisines, and fostering meaningful connections became routine.
By allowing myself genuine relaxation, I enabled my overworked nervous system to fully regulate. This surrender triggered a significant change. I crafted more efficient systems that enhanced productivity in my business operations.
Surprisingly, as I embraced this newfound equilibrium, success followed suit. Contrary to my long-held belief, abundance flowed effortlessly. June, July, and August emerged as my most financially rewarding months, and 2023 became my most financially rewarding year to date. For the first time, I surpassed my highest paying corporate salary, a true testament to the freedom I discovered by embracing a more balanced lifestyle.
And personally:
Conquering my fear of deep water was a monumental victory for me. It might not seem like a big deal to some, but for years, it loomed large in my life.
The terror of being in deep water had a tight grip on me. The moment my feet couldn't touch the ground, panic set in. Looking back, I realize this fear mirrored my struggle to surrender to life's natural course. It reflected my lack of trust in the universe—I always craved control. But this year marked a shift; it was the year I finally released my grip and embraced faith.
While exploring the enchanting coastline of the Italian Riviera, I encountered crystal-clear waters. I decided to swim, and suddenly, I found myself in the deep. Instead of giving in to panic, I took slow, deep breaths and began treading lightly. Minutes passed, and I was still far from the shore.
In that moment, something profound happened. Tears streamed down my face as I was overwhelmed with emotion. The ocean had been my childhood love, yet along the way, fear had taken hold. It was surprising to fear something I cherished so deeply.
But at that very moment, treading water in the boundless ocean, surrounded by breathtaking mountains and the beauty of the sea, something shifted within me. I felt an overwhelming sense of joy, feeling held and supported.
For a whole hour, I swam freely. Since that day, I eagerly seized every chance to swim. It felt incredibly liberating—a feeling of absolute freedom that I hadn't experienced before.
Something that still scares me:
In the midst of my unconventional life, there's a mystical and deeply spiritual facet to me that not everyone sees. Embracing this profound spiritual essence, my "white witch" energy, has been an integral part of who I am.
However, there's a lingering fear—one that still holds its grip on me. It's the fear that fully revealing this side of myself might lead others to not take me seriously. It's a fear that's persisted for so long, one that I continue to grapple with.
I've always sensed a profoundly spiritual and mystical aspect within me, something I hold close. Yet, the fear of judgment and not being perceived seriously has been a hurdle.
Something I’m proud of:
The wildly rewarding journey of watching my clients reclaim their hormonal health…and then seeing how their lives just BLOSSOM.
I just updated my testimonials page and felt emotional as I re-read the stories of my incredible clients.
Truth be told, it’s been a big year.
I helped a physician eliminate her ovarian cysts, and avoid more IVF treatments to get pregnant naturally:
Even as a medical professional, I had just seen western medicine fail me and I knew there had to be another way. I decided to reach out to Evelyn and I'm so glad I did! Looking at my history I don't think anyone would have guessed that I could get pregnant naturally. My family is so thankful to God and to Evelyn who showed me what my body was capable of. We could not be happier.
I offered pathways to avoid a total hysterectomy (the only option her doctor proposed):
Slowly but surely, I've started to emerge from the depression that engulfed me at the beginning of 2023. During my time working with Evelyn, I've experienced ongoing improvements in my health. Remarkably, one of the fibroids has even reduced in size by approximately 1.5 cm!
And so many women reclaimed their mind + body + spirit + hormonal health:
Evelyn's personal touch led to the use of different modalities/practices that truly brought healing and a more concerted effort on my part to take care of my body, mind and soul. Our body and mind connection runs so deep and the TWJ approach was key to my success.
Sooo, are you still reading?
If this is resonating and you’d like to get a conversation going, I say, go for it!
I offer FREE 1-on-1 Wellness Consultations and I’d love to connect with you.
These consults are famously warm and casual (described as coffee chats with your bff). And whether we work together more consistently or not, it will set the tone for healthier hormones in 2024.
Naturally. Holistically.
If you are dealing with painful periods, adult acne, an “infertility” diagnosis, weight gain, anxiety, fatigue, mood swings, or fibroids, it is ABSOLUTELY possible to relieve these symptoms.
In a way that makes you feel beautifully vibrant in your body.
That’s my New Year’s wish for you.
Xx
Evelyn